Episodes
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.When does the Christmas spirit truly begin? Is it when Mariah Carey's vocals take over the airwaves, or when you find yourself donning a festive onesie in early November? Benji and Brad engage in a lively debate over the premature arrival of holiday festivities, especially from Brad's vantage point in retail. They navigate the amusing clash of Halloween and Christmas and share personal stories that highlight their unique family traditions and the quirks that make the holiday season special.Shawn Mendes'...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.What does it truly mean to embrace fatherhood in a same-gender relationship amidst the societal norms and challenges? In our latest episode, we sit down with John Joe as he reveals his heartwarming and eye-opening journey of becoming a father through surrogacy. From the emotional highs and lows of preparing for twins to the unexpected hurdles with healthcare providers, John Joe shares his story with candor and humor. His experiences highlight the importance of advocating for equal participation in prenatal appointment...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever tried to keep up with a drag queen during Pride weekend? Benji did, and let's just say he had to sneak in soda water breaks amidst the kaleidoscope of London's bustling LGBTQ+ scene. Join us as we laugh at Benji's misadventures, from frigid encounters with Britain's notorious weather to humorous swipes at our own dating profiles. Our latest escapades take a Broadway twist as we ponder the cultural phenomena like the West End's "Frozen," setting the stage for a chat as lively as a Clapham ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered if gifting sweets to flight attendants could score you a free drink? This week, Benji and I, Brad, share personal tales of in-flight adventures, including unexpected perks and quirky connections with flight crews. We explore the dry air struggles and seating preference debates, along with a memorable post-flight escapade at Clapham's vibrant Two Brewers—an evening that sparked a humorous discussion about the best time to hit London's nightlife.What happens when a love triangle is mistakenly ann...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever found yourself unexpectedly clutching a penis pump after a night of Drag Bingo chaos? You're not alone. We kick off with tales of spooky thrills from London's Tully's Farm Shocktober Fest and Thorpe Park's Fright Nights, where scare mazes and roller coasters in the dark set the scene for our Halloween escapades. The adventure takes a cheeky twist with a night out in Soho's Little Coup, where an unexpected prize left us pondering its pros, cons, and the slapstick comedy of late-night filmi...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Can a petty argument really be the catalyst for an adventure in the heart of London? Join us as we navigate the aftermath of a heated debate between your favorite hosts, Benji and Brad. Amidst the tension, there’s a silver lining as Brad scores a free coffee from Pret, while Benji patiently waits for a planned rendezvous. Our episode is sprinkled with playful jabs, Mr. Burns references, and a reminder that Halloween is just around the corner—our very own "gay Christmas."Feel that crisp autumn air and prepare for some ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever received a mysterious text that led to an unforgettable adventure? Benji did, and it started with "Golf Course." This week, we recount the hilarity and romance that unfolded from this cryptic message, revealing unexpected connections and a charmingly awkward encounter. As Benji transitions from anonymous dating to seeking friends with benefits, you’ll be in stitches with the side-splitting details of an impromptu golf course escapade. The laughs keep coming as we dive into Benji’s evolving love life and the unpre...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.What happens when two fabulous hosts take on London with dazzling white teeth and a penchant for musicals? Get ready for an uproarious episode where we unpack the scandalous, the hilarious, and the downright chaotic adventures from our city escapades. From Brad's unexpected nap during his whitening session to a backstage rendezvous during Wicked, we cover it all. We also dive into the eternal question of why some gays are drawn to musicals while others can't stand them, and share our excitement and Benji&apo...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Three bottles of Whispering Angel, two gays, one drag queen, one drinking game... what could possibly go wrong this week?! Join Benji, Brad and Chanel No.5, London's campiest drag queen, for a riotous game of Mr and Mr: The Benji and Brad Edition. The game forces the boys to share some of their messy stories including wild nights out, masturbating at work and the embarrassment of waking up next to someone without knowing their name.In this weeks Queer Diary, we reveal a listeners story about an awkward family Air...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered what really happens on a wild night out with a drag queen? Join us as we spill the tea with the fabulous Miss Chanel No. 5, the reigning queen of Clapham's drag scene. From Brad's notorious wardrobe malfunctions to a disastrous perm attempt, Chanel gives us the lowdown on our most laugh-out-loud moments around London. With a glass of Whispering Angel wine in hand, we chat about the highs and lows of drag culture and the personal journeys within it, adding a dash of humor and insight into our cr...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered how birthday celebrations evolve as you transition from your 20s to your 30s as a gay man? Join us as we share our hilarious and heartfelt journey through smelly shoes, nostalgic escapades, and the transformation from simple gatherings to extravagant trips. Benji takes us on a tour of his fabulous birthday adventure in "Gay Paris," while Brad reminisces about his uniquely themed 21st birthday cake. Along the way, we chat about maintaining personal freedom in relationships, especially when planning solo t...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.What happens when a bout of the sniffles meets an overdose of euphoria? Join us as we kick off this wild ride, where Benji's under-the-weather vibes clash hilariously with Brad's uncontainable energy. We reminisce about last night’s escapades, introduce a suspiciously nostalgic drink, and somehow manage to preview our plans for a deeper, more introspective chat later on. Expect lots of laughs as we navigate this rollercoaster of moods and memories.Fast-forward to the minefield of modern dating. Post-lockdown...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Ever wondered how to effortlessly make queer friends in a bustling metropolis like London? Tune in to our latest episode where we unlock the secrets to forging meaningful connections within the vibrant LGBTQ+ community. From the thrill of joining a gay rugby team to the intellectual haven of Gaze the Word bookshop, we've got tips that cater to every interest. Picture yourself part of impromptu sports games at Clapham Common or enjoying a drag show featuring the fabulous Chanel Number 5. Whether you're a spor...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 6: Episode 2. Benji and Brad discuss their summer holiday plans including what it is like going away as a queer person on a family holiday. Ever wondered what it’s like to date a brat? Benji and Brad dive into the world of "Brat Summer," exploring how childish and self-centered behavior is changing the dating game. Plus, Benji shares a cautionary tale about a friend's overzealous use of Viagra and the stigma surrounding sexual performance. From laughs to lessons, this episode has it all, making it one you ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 6: Episode 1. Benji and Brad are now officially back with a bang, sharing their latest escapades and teasing a lineup of fabulous guests for Season Six. Brace yourself for a whirlwind season that promises laughter, insight, and plenty of surprises.Curious about Ozempic and its buzz in the weight loss world? Benji and Brad break it all down for you, from the various forms of the drug to its effects on appetite and costs. The boys get real about societal pressures within the gay community and how this medication ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 6: Episode 0. Benji and Brad are back with a brand new season of My Big Gay Podcast! Join the boys in their new studio where they reveal what they’ve been up to so far this year. Benji and Brad share the highs and lows of adulting in the bustling city of London. From the glitter-filled fun of London Pride and Mighty Hoopla (the largest queer festival in the UK) to the daunting task of buying property. Expect candid confessions about managing finances, dealing with mortgages, and of course still finding time to ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Join Benji and Brad for some festive fun as they chat about their lead up to Christmas, what they’re getting each other as a present and how some of their Christmas parties have ended up! Happy holidays podcasters and here’s to a fantastic 2024 for you all xSupport the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Twenty-Five - Part Two. Fill up those glasses and join in with the second part of Benji and Brad’s end of Season Five Party! They are joined by David Allwood (Mr Gay UK 2022) where they’ll be getting all the answers to your questions. Plus, Benji and Brad play Shag, Marry, Ghost with David (feel free to play along and share your answers!) as well as finding out all about David’s marriage story. Keep being your fabulous selves, spread kindness, live your best big gay lives and Benji and Brad will C U ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Twenty-Five - Part One. IT’S PARTY TIME! Grab a drink and join Benji and Brad in their end of Season Five Finale Tea Party! Also joining them is special guest and Mr Gay Great Britain 2022, David Allwood! Benji and Brad find out what it’s like to enter Mr Gay Great Britain, how to go about it and what is involved in the pageant. David shares his experience since winning the crown and talks all things Homoparody, his queer dance company based in London. Plus, Benji spills the tea on when he bumped int...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Twenty-Four. Benji and Brad are joined by the wonderful Olly Pike, who is the Chief Executive Unicorn of Pop’n’Olly. The boys discuss all things LGBTQ+ education in schools and how changes are being made to create an inclusive society. Benji and Brad also play a brand new game with Olly where they throwback to some of their favourite cartoons of the 90s! Plus, Benji opens up about his social anxiety and how he is overcoming this by joining gay social groups in London, where things haven’t quite gone ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season Five: Episode Twenty-Three. From secret gay sex group chats to sharing your scandalous stories, Benji and Brad have all the goss this week! Plus, find out who has been having raunchy romps late at night in the local park…Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Twenty-Two. Benji and Brad return from being part of Channel Island’s Pride in Jersey and reveal all the shenanigans that went down over a long weekend staying with five of London’s top drag queens! Ever had a hangover on a plane? Brad did, and shares his experience on how to avoid a messy situation…Rainbow LotteryThe UK's first and only lottery supporting LGBTQ+ good causes.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Supp...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Twenty-One. Ever heard of fizzy poppers? Well, neither had Benji or Brad until this week! Plus, the boys share stories on exes dating exes and a new business venture is revealed involving Grindr, cash and gas…Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Twenty. Brad discusses a new business idea with Benji that involves their feet, mud and baked beans… (don’t ask!) Plus, Benji learns how you can get blue lips during sexual encounters… (again, don’t ask!). Catch up with the boys on this week’s episode of My Big Gay Podcast and all will be revealed…Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Nineteen. Benji and Brad are back after their short summer break with brand new episodes for Season 5! Find out what the boys have been up to over the last couple of weeks including Brad’s big gaycation to New York! Plus, as the Pride season comes to an end in the UK, the boys share the importance on being your true authentic self, especially with homophobia on the rise in the country. Keep spreading the love and be kind to each other xSupport the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.insta...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Can you guess how many fingers Benji and Brad will take today? Well, you can also get involved as the boys put a cheeky twist on the classic 'Drop a Finger' game in their recent episode of My Big Gay Podcast! Ever wondered what it's like to date older men within the LGBTQ+ community? Or the complexities that come with 'straight' profiles popping up on Grindr? Well this week, Benji and Brad spill the tea on their personal sexual experiences, from filmed sex to intergenerational hook-ups. Join ...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Seventeen. Benji and Brad give you another peek into the spirited world of London’s queer community. From musical theatre drag bingo, open air-cinemas and the Impulse London body-positive pool party, the capital has got it going on this summer! Brad also shares his personal experience with having gynecomastia and cosmetic chest surgery, and Benji bares all on his recent experience on working in a toxic environment.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcast...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Sixteen. Join Benji and Brad this week as they go from having a chaotic spontaneous night out involving rum tasting and a stairway stumble straight into jumping on a train to co-host the first ever pride in Hinckley! The boys share a bed (again!) in a hotel, much to Benji’s dismay, and hear how they got on with getting the My Big Gay Party started in Hinckley.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast...
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Fifteen. Brad gets invited to walk his first ever red carpet event, and of course it ends in absolute disaster! Benji reveals why airports are his new favourite hangout spots and the boys share your helpful tips on what to do if you are bottoming for the first time.Support the showGet to know us more personally!Instagramwww.instagram.com/biggaypodcastEmailhello@mybiggaypodcast.comWebsitewww.MyBigGayPodcast.com
Get in touch! Drop Benji and Brad a text message by clicking on this link.Season 5: Episode Fourteen. The gays were certainly on parade this weekend as Benji and Brad walked the Pride in London March together for the very first time! They share all what went down over London Pride weekend, including lots of sexual freedom and spreading the colours of the rainbow everywhere, all for the cause of celebrating that queer kid who is searching for a place to belong. Plus, Benji reveals all about a secret package that has arrived that might awaken a whole new experience for him…Thank you to all ou...